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To begin with, it would be unfair to expect something long-term from a man who's just turned single, possibly after a long time.A sound piece of advice would be to take each day as it comes, and not rush into anything, even if it feels like heaven every time you are together.He may be in a phase where he just wants to vent out his resentment towards relationships or wants to enjoy his new-found freedom.
Whether a relationship lasts forever, or fizzles out in a jiffy, we can never really stop looking for love and companionship.
Having gone through an unsuccessful relationship, a recently divorced man is no different.
Being human, he is bound to reach out for company, and you may possibly figure on his radar. The precise reasons behind this may vary, but the vulnerable state of mind that follows a split is mostly the reason behind the man's inconsistent behavior.
Now, before we all get our panties in a bunch, before I get labeled the heinous man-stealer, let me toss out a few more details: James’ wife was on the cusp of no longer being his wife. But to quote Olivia Newton John in her star turn in “Grease,” What I mean to say is that over the course of those 10 hours I couldn’t knock the feeling – despite all those red flags – that James and I might still be a good match. Which brings me to now, two years into our relationship. In this day and age, the briefest jaunt through Facebook reveals significant portions of who this woman is: What she looks like, what parts of herself she likes to advertise.
They’d been together for 10 years, married for two. James and I have our ups and our downs in what could be called “still the honeymoon phase.” And many of them, frankly, have to do with how he used to be married to someone else. There’s some immediate satisfaction of knowing, of course. I’m sorry to say it, but this one’s a real lose/lose. The recently divorced man is, with little exception, the recently traumatized man.